Farewell Paula  
  Greg and Paula King together at their 20th Wedding Anniversary in April 2008.
 
By TimberTrader News' editor
HELEN HATTY
 

On Thursday, January 22, 2009, at 6.55am, Paula King, wife and business partner of TimberTrader News' publisher, Greg King, passed away at Wantirna Health hospice after a long illness.

Paula had been ill for more than seven years and died peacefully with Greg at her bedside.

Born Edith Mary Pauline Farrell on April 27, 1956 in Northern Ireland, Paula (as she preferred to be known) migrated to Australia with her parents and younger siblings, arriving on April 1, 1963.

The Farrell family settled in the outer north-western Melbourne suburb of St Albans and the young Paula attended local schools before commencing work at 16.

Paula married and had two boys (Dan and Gavin). She started work in the timber industry with Beecham-Wright in the late 1970s by which time she had become a single mum proudly working three jobs to support herself and her two young sons.

The main reason Paula was initially employed by Beecham-Wright was because she was able to convert imperial into metric mentally when the 'new fangled' measuring system was introduced. (She had previously worked a stint at Yates where all seeds are measured in metric.)

For a time Paula (at this time known as Paula Grant and later Paula Farrell) changed jobs and joined T White & Son before heading back to Beecham-Wright.

In 1984 she accepted a position as sales representative with SATCO around the time of the introduction of LVL into the Victorian timber industry.

Paula met her future husband, Greg, at the launch of the LVL product at the Laverton North warehouse in October 1986.

 
 
Greg says he was attracted to Paula because of her exuberance and infectious enthusiasm. The couple was married on April 10, 1988.

Paula had by then moved on to Mortim before joining Greg at TimberTrader News in 1991 and changing her name to Paula King.

She was responsible for all admin aspects of the business and her timber experience helped Greg with product knowledge and support.

One of Paula's other roles has been as conference manager of the eight regular Frame Australia conferences held since 1998, the most recent being last June.

 
 

This was really Paula's last activity in the timber industry as her illness became more severe by the week resulting in a number of stays in hospital.

Paula was diagnosed with bowel cancer in December 2001 and she fought the extremely painful illness with passion and determination through two major operations, three lots of chemotherapy, as well as a number of bouts of radiation and parallel naturopathic treatments.

During all this time Paula never uttered those words "Why me?" and she constantly presented a positive attitude to her friends, family and business colleagues.

She always talked openly about her illness in the hope that her example would help others with an early detection of this insidious disease.

In spite of all her challenges she even took the time to counsel newly diagnosed cancer sufferers in what to expect and how to maintain a positive attitude.

She was indeed a true inspiration to me during my diagnosis and recovery in 2007.

Paula is survived by her loving husband Greg, adored sons Daniel and Gavin, her parents Harry and Regis, sisters Patricia, Edith and Louise, and brothers Colin and Barry.

She will be sadly missed by all who had dealings with Paula over the last 30 years.

 
 

Pictured above is the first photo Greg took of Paula just after she had started
with the now defunct SATCO in 1986 (even before the couple started dating).

Paula was very passionate about her garden and especially her roses.
Here is a beautiful example of her favorite Floribunda Angel Face about to
burst into full bloom for the first time in the spring of 1999. These roses are
still in her garden and give a magnificent annual display.

 
 
 
  Personal Thank you by Greg  

Since the passing of Paula, my wife, friend and business partner, I have been overwhelmed by the expressions of sympathy and support from this fabulous industry of ours.

In Victoria Paula was well known as a friendly and caring person who always had time to advise, help and chat with people who genuinely wanted to learn about timber.

When I spoke at Paula’s funeral service I said the following words: “To her timber mates. Paula was very proud to be part of the timber industry and particularly proud to earn the respect and acknowledgement of some of the key players of the Victorian timber family.

“A lot of the faces that I’m looking at now knew Paula for more than 30 years. She could also tell jokes with the best of them.”

That sums up Paula – just keep it simple.

To everyone in the industry who has supported us over the past seven years, I thank you.

You have helped keep us strong and my wife was always grateful for the continued expressions of love and support from her many friends and colleagues as she battled bowel cancer.

Paula will be remembered because of the qualities that are in abundance within our timber industry – honesty, integrity and fraternity.

Personally, I cannot express adequately the deepest feelings of appreciation and respect to an industry that embraces its own with such openness and affection.

Thank you.

GREG KING

  Friends Say Farewell  

A number of Paula’s timber industry friends offered their condolences and spoke of their personal dealings with Paula during her career in sales, as well as through TimberTrader News.

These included Robert Dindas of Dindas Australia:

“I first met Paula King when she was working at IPL as Paula Farrell. I was purchasing plywood from her in her role as a salesperson.

It was always a pleasure to do business with her and I can only describe her as delightful, helpful, fantastic, competent and capable.

I have to admit I was disappointed to hear she had retired from the industry after marrying Greg.”


From Judy Tilling of Tilling Timber:

“I have known Paula for more years than I like to admit - well before she became Paula King.

“I recall an event that Tilling Timber held for ‘the ladies of the industry’.

“We invited eight ladies to come to lunch for Ladies Day (The Oaks) and dress up accordingly.

“It was a great networking opportunity and interesting that we could only find eight executive ladies to invite at that time. I’m sure that if we held the same function today there would be many more attendees.

“Because of her inspiration to the women of the industry, perhaps we should repeat the luncheon on Oaks Day this year for the ladies, in celebration and indeed recognition of Paula’s lifelong contribution to our industry?”


From Kevin Ezard of Ezard Marketing:

“The first Frame Australia was held in 1998 with a combined team of Paula, Greg and myself staging the conference, with Paula taking all responsibility for event and delegate management.

“It was the first time I had worked with Paula and it gave me a great opportunity to get to know her.

“From this, began a mutually successful and enjoyable business relationship that became a true friendship for both my wife Kati and I.

“Positive and professional, it was always a delight to see her at the conferences with the biggest welcoming smile, impeccably dressed (wearing her favourite colours pink and purple somewhere for sure!!).

“She displayed warmth and grace, and exuded confidence of ensuring that everything was under control.

“During those 10 years so much occurred that demonstrated Paula’s critical eye for detail and her “can do” approach.

“In the final term of her life this same focused determination was miraculously displayed with her perseverance in dealing with her health challenges.

“I am sure that Paula will be fondly remembered and dearly missed by so many of the Frame Australia delegates.
“May she rest in peace (wearing pink and purple).”


And from Stephen Fray of MiTek Australia:

“For the most part, many of us try to distance work from family and friends.

“However there are times when, for some reason they merge because of a common interest, a mutual bond, a shared passion or simply because they enjoy being together.

“My time at MiTek has seen close relationships blossom with staff, clients and occasionally suppliers.

“Although our early relationship with the ‘Kings’ was through the professional contact we had with TimberTrader News, Greg and Paula quickly became to mean much more to the people at MiTek and especially to my wife Cheryl and myself.

“Both Greg and Paula became good friends and a wonderful example to us of positive thinking and making the most of every moment.

“With the passing of Paula, we have lost a warm and generous friend who we will miss greatly.

“To Greg and family, our thoughts and best wishes are with you.”

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